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Aargghh!! Dilemma!!

Today I should collect the college's study plan. The content is about the subject that I will took for this semester. But I'm confused!! What should I take? Will it be giving me nice mark? Since I'm in the last semester (before thesis, I hope) so I have to choose the subject that will be advantegous for granting a good GPA. It's important of course for search a job, the enterprises usually look at the GPA first before decided to interview you. But honestly I got curious, Is that only the important thing? Because you know, sometimes i keep asking why they're so determinating by this point of view, it's unfair at all.

Actually, my CEO friend said that he will rather look at the person's capabilities rather than the person's GPA or which universities they came from. Nowadays people keep dividing the person's opportunities to search a job. They said that (and they believed) the person's with good GPA and from the state university will be easier to find a job. And after that the parents are championing to enter and push their children to enter state university. But in the reality, the boss or the head office or the CEO (as my friend said), it's not the determine! Your capability and your soft skill are much more important than that! My friend also said (the CEO) that sometime state university's graduate always got cocky and ask the big salary before they got the job, "Why they do that?" my friend asked me. And i said "Because we're from state university and we deserved that". And then my friend said again "Why you're so cocky? State university's graduate means nothing if you don't have the capabilities and soft skill. And that's why state university's graduate always failed! They lose from other graduate."

The other story is the real story. Actually it is MY REAL STORY. I have a boyfriend for about 3 years (almost) already. He's so nice and innocent, faithful and love mo so much ( because I'm  his first girlfriend, i guess). But he's from private university. And you know what? My parent specially my mother said that i have to try to find another person because they want me to married with the guy from state university like me. Is it important? I mean, is it affecting if i married a state university's graduate? They said that if i married the guy from state university, so that means i married the clever guy and it will be benefit and good for my children then. Hello?? It seems that i want to laugh. A guy from state university's graduate not guarantee that he will be the best pair for me, and not guarantee too that he will be forever faithful! Please don't be too harsh, look from up above not from the old mindset only.

Fight for Your Future Husband! (if you believe he's the one)

Comments

Introduce me 2 ur mom,
n im sure she will 1000% ask u 2 choose me...
Hahaha...

Itulah ortu Ka,
terlalu mengedepankan gengsi...
Coz kmu msh kul,
ntar klo kmu dah kerja,
ga bakal deh ortumu nyuruh kmu nyari yg lulusan univ. negeri...
Trust me.. ;)

gantian donk comment di blogQ...
Anonymous said…
waahh.,,

its the first i read ur blog..
congratz hunnie..
hehehe..

yeahh.,, most parents are liake that., but i agree with razaq..
try to make them understand again..

whats the point of being with sum1 if u dont hav feelings for them..? rite?

juz try to talk to ur parents slowly..
okaii hunniee...

*muuaacchh..
Gudluckk..

x)
huhuhu..
terharu..
terima kasih ya mbak-masku..

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